Look, you get born, you keep your head down, and then you die. If you’re lucky.

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Cake day: June 14th, 2023

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  • Be advised that different cuisines use different chillies which hit differently.

    I lived in the US for a few years and when I went out for curry, the staff would warn me that some of their curries were hot… until they realised I was a Brit at which point they were like ‘ok, enjoy’. I could out-spice all of my American spicehead friends with curries. But some of the Mexican food I tried blew my head off completely while not especially bothering my American friends. I got used to that too but it took some acclimatisation.



  • Don’t know why but these comments hit hard. Showed me my privilege, I suppose. My parents were distant, emotionally absent, manipulative, and controlling. And, of course, they fucked me up*. I’ve had more than one (ex) girlfriend accuse me of being an emotional cripple. But I was never afraid of my parents physically. And now they’re both passed, so it’s up to me to try not to fuck up my kids.


    This Be The Verse, Philip Larkin

    They fuck you up, your mum and dad.
    They may not mean to, but they do.
    They fill you with the faults they had
    And add some extra, just for you.

    But they were fucked up in their turn
    By fools in old-style hats and coats,
    Who half the time were soppy-stern
    And half at one another’s throats.

    Man hands on misery to man.
    It deepens like a coastal shelf.
    Get out as early as you can,
    And don’t have any kids yourself.