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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Appreciate it. That’s the thing though, have to keep fingers crossed, shit could still happen. We have seen what cancel culture has done to people of all groups when being falsely accused.

    Angry reactions is a good example recently. It’s been years since I watched the dude, because I dont use tiktok anymore, deleted the app and my account years ago, but genuinely he was a funny and wholesome guy.

    When the drama started, I stated that it was important to take both sides seriously, wait for facts and evidence to come out, and not just instantly side with one. I’m not gonna debate which one’s worse, but sexual assault is wrong and damaging to someone’s life, but so is the accusation of it. People forget that, and hell, I think it’s another thing that seems so obvious that people are just so ignorant of.

    When it came out that he was indeed innocent, and the accuser admitted to making up some B.S., the damage was done, his reputation already went down the gutter, and that’s gonna sting.

    With this only growing to be more common, this is the type of shit that I’m just scared of. Even when you were PROVEN to be innocent, your life is still ruined. That’s what makes me not to touch any relationships or even interacting with “children” MY AGE anymore with a 500 mile radius.

    I don’t want any silver of possibility of being put into that position where I get falsely accused, and if I do, it’s (hopefully) clear that it’s not possible. Call it trust issues or whatever, but I hate risks, and at this rate having relationships of any kind is fucking risky.





  • Google to the rescue! Keep in mind, it is common for people to refer to sex when talking about gender as to not confuse it with “Sex”‘s more sexual definition. It’'d be a lil weird to say the “Sex Reveal Party”. But when comparing the two, they have two different dennotative meanings.

    Anywho, from Google’s Dictionary:

    gen·der

    noun

    noun: gender; plural noun: genders

    the male sex or the female sex, especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones, or one of a range of other identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female.

    “the singer has opted to keep the names and genders of her twins private”

    members of a particular gender considered as a group.

    “social interaction between the genders”

    the fact or condition of belonging to or identifying as having a particular gender.

    “video ads will target users based only on age and gender”