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  • TurboHarbinger@feddit.cltoClever Comebacks@feddit.ukWoman?
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    1 month ago

    You should try educating yourself on the subject instead of rejecting a whole group of people based on vague feelings.

    Man, telling people what to do should be illegal. You should study more because I said so.

    There are no men in women’s sports and children are not usually subject to gender affirming surgery.

    Bro, you should read your own comments before blatantly lying.


  • I understand, sometimes you just need to scream and rant. It is a good thing.

    When I get anxiety this hard, I usually take a very long walk until I get exhausted, so I could think for myself instead of hearing my subconscious how awful things are.

    After taking a break, you’ll notice that this voice is always emotional, with 0 logic, full of exaggerated negativity, and will try to convince you that “this is how you die today”, which is pretty much bullshit and incredibly unrealistic. For me at least, that voice will always try focus on the worst in people. When I feel alone is pretty much this.

    Sometimes I get a crazy though like telling me “you’re done, dead, there is no going back” for something so trivial as remembering I have to take the dog out tomorrow (not now or yesterday, tomorrow). There is no win unless you ignore it and push through. And even if you commit, it’s still fucking hard.


  • TurboHarbinger@feddit.cltoCasual Conversation @lemm.eeHate being lonely
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    2 months ago

    Or did you just comment to discourage people from trying to help and leave OP to suffer?

    Sure dude, both discouraging people from “helping” (lol) and leaving OP to suffer are obviously the same thing. /s

    First of all: OP didn’t ask for advice. Second: I’m discouraging people from giving bad advice.

    I can relate to OPs suffering. I know is though, and I undestand on my own experience how OP feels. I know that the only solution for it’s like another commenter said: “get used to it”. OP probably knows this too.

    With some projection from me, I can assume he’s only trying to rant over this, thats why OP asked said it on this sub. That’s why he hasn’t answered other comments beside hobbies. OP is trying to relate to people this way.

    So when people show up full of self-indulgence thinking “OP NEEDS MY ADVICE”, then it’s clear those comments are more for themselves than for OP. So congrats, you’ve given yourselves a pat on the back. If that’s your attitude, you can fuck off.










  • It’s not hard when you take the first step to admit that a habit is bad and you need to get rid of it. Even if your subconscious tells you not to.

    Yeah talked like a kid who haven’t give up anything yet. That shit takes time and I got places to be.

    tl;dw: You have a brain for a reason. Use it.

    To read? Or to achieve conclusions without reading? Please use it before answering. Fucking moron.