it also guarantees that you’ll fail more often than not if you don’t get professionally trained help

would you DM me to explain what kind of help you got and how it helped?

If you’re talking about masking, isn’t it hard? like constantly being on edge pretending to be something you’re not, faking being what extroverted neurotypicals want you to be.

At the workplace it would mean working 200%: doing my job and then constantly placating them. Who does that?