You are lurking too hard
There were a bunch of smaller social media platforms I’ve been on around 2016 that did the separation for age and it usually just ended up with 18- marking themselves as 18+ and vice versa. I can’t remember the name for it. I think one was called teen network or something. And the other one was a mobile app with a blue target logo.
Good idea on paper, an absolute disaster in practice. Seen it tried before and it was a mess
It’s common on some other larger platforms too. I see the same people across multiple YouTube channels sometimes.
I start instance surfing. I go into federated instance lists and just pick a random one to explore.
Not bad. It’s normal to have alts on any social media platform
Create your own instance, defedrate, profit.
The fact that it has GPU graph already makes it better than other tools.
Try something like Linux Mint with the Xfce edition. Might be able to lower the RAM a bit more.
I never had KDE crash. Iusearchbtw with Wayland. AMD hardware. Bunch of widgets and customizations.